What exactly is a bisexual? For us, the attraction of the men and women are: physical, emotional, mental, and emotional. Either with or same-sex couples get along with heterosexual couples, we can get long happiness. Some people are aware of their sexual orientation when young, most people need a longer period of time to understand and accept themselves can love the fact that a man can love a woman, these people are bisexual people.
Love a person attracted reasons there are ten million species (character, common interests and appearance), but the gender is not one of them. We choose our partner will care about the people as a whole, and without regard to gender factors. Modern bisexual movement began in the 1970 s is the product of heterosexual groups fight for freedom. Early bisexual group mainly devotes to the gay movement of men. In the 1980 s, bisexual women be divorced from the lesbian community, set up their own organization. For many women, bisexual identity with feminist politics are inseparable. In the late 1980 s, lesbian and gay groups began to accept bisexual, they should be brought into the rainbow group.
Bi is what feeling? Each person in different process of self-discovery. Before fully understood their sexual orientation, people will experience a very long period of "question" or "curious". With contact person is not necessarily gay people or bisexual people. Even if after bisexual people meet, also not sure that I am bisexual. Only slowly in the different relationship to fumble, gauge their feelings, and to make a judgment. In this changing mood discern the bearings, sometimes is really a challenge, especially with the opposite sex to challenge our gay, is even more so. While heterosexual people also tend to encounter the same confusion. Only when we confirm your ability to love men and women both, in bisexual identity to get peace of mind.
Compared with their peers, bisexual children's way of viewing the situation is more different, more profound. Their relationship is sometimes an enviable, sometimes despicable. Bi is a gift, it can let a person in a way that is not others to understand and appreciate things. The criticism of others may make you feel the pain and uncomfortable, but once you accept yourself, others will be the same to you with open arms.
If you worth adolescence, addicted to drugs, alcohol, Internet, games, television, or other can let you avoid messy emotional things. So you really should do is to be honest with yourself, and to confront their fear. Once you determine your own bisexual orientation, you will have more control over life. Although these troubles will get worse at first, but the "escape" will only make your mental and emotional work stagnated, prolong that let a person was on pins and needles the confused times.
Bisexual men and women sometimes think, only to find a partner can sometimes make them difficult to achieve life goals. Life, however, are not you intentionally ignore sexual orientation, to live like a straight and easier. Refused to identity is actually a kind of inner phobia. Part of the implications of like this yourself, you don't exist is not important. Some people through the blind pursuit of heterosexual relationships to convince yourself (and others) the fact that they are straight, this is extremely dangerous, is also very unhealthy.