Learning other bisexual people coming out of experience.




As bisexual people, love of the opposite sex at the same time, also will fall in love with gay. In fact we all know, sexual orientation can be hidden can also be depressed, but it will not change. Must have a lot of bisexual men and women are considered out of the closet. Thought out after can aboveboard meet bisexual friends, isn't it a little excited. Coming out is not actually say that simple, need to prepare a lot of matters, also need to consider good enough.

The first thing you need to do is to learn. Learning other bisexual people coming out of experience. To the success of bisexual people learning experience, to the failure of bisexual people learn from them. If you can't find other bisexual people, you can on some bisexual dating sites, there is a lot of people talk about their experience coming out. You can also go out to meet bisexual, they also can give you help. Maybe you will say that each person has a different family, others doesn't suit you. Yes, no method is entirely applicable. But perhaps each character to parents, but they are against the cause of the child and the reason, but tend to be the same.

Next you want to find their own comrades, these comrades can be your friends, classmates, and even peer brothers and sisters. We all know that young people are more likely to accept this fact, if you have a friend who support you, no matter whether she is bisexual, will bring you unexpected help. When you are around a group of people who can accept you, your stress can be reduced.

The last thing to do is planning the whole process of coming out, why say it's process? Because this is not the mouth to say "I am bi", can solve a thing. Coming out is not an end; it is a process. Every bisexual people and the process, is not the same, according to their parents' personality and his own character, planning, planning the time, find a good helper, simulation exercise. You have to play a few times more prewrite, imagine your parents when they hear themselves as bisexual people react, is going to say against it. And then you want to do what kind of reaction to reassure parents, to persuade parents. This process is different from person to person, but you must first be prepared.


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